Monday 4 April 2016

Read 5 reasons men can cheat on there woman and not get got, most men are guilty of no 4

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Over the years, this have gently worked the roles of men & women in the society into our thoughts. There is a set standard for the way women are expected to really behave as compared to the men in the society.
It is however unsettling that in a generationsuch as this, where gender parity is being worked on, some matters still give men the upper hand at the long run.
While gender equality may be a feat that many and not few would consider unattainable due to the circumstances surrounding us, it is something that cannot be termed impossible either. This issue may be considered or viewed from various perspectives.


Irrespective of the final conclusion, it is already opined in our psychethat men can get away with certain things while women cannot.
In relationships, women are expected to endure scorn, trials and tribulations while they act out their submissive roles. They areexpected to wait on the men and to tend to every of their needs. If love is indeed a fair game, why subject the women to emotional torture?
Find below some of the reasons why men can cheat and get away with it at the expense of the women:
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1. Men are considered the head
While religion places men as the head of the family, many people dwell on that doctrine and possibly get things wrong. Most women have accepted this as the norm, but then, the men should get to understand that the head cannot function alone. It needs the body for total coordination.
This saying gives a man the leverage to act as he deem fit. Some women also cheat but the society does not encourage them to admit this openly. Doing so could be lethal for the woman involved.
2. Receiving end drama
Most people who grew up in a typical Nigerian setting would understand this better. Teenagers, when being chastised and warned off men, get to hear this often. It’s rather unfortunate that women still bear the brunt of the aftermath of issues that involves both a man and a woman.
Sadly, most women are made to bear the shame as a man could sleep with as many women as possible without being afraid of being pregnant. The fear of viral diseases may be the only thing that may want men to check their libido.
3. Statistics and nature
According to reports, women tend to be more faithful in relationships as compared to men. Women are overbearing and would do all they could to manage a relationship.
Using relationships where the couples stick together after many years of marriage as a case study, one would discover that the women have made huge sacrifices.
The women simply ignore the men and channel their resources into other things.
4. Reasons for cheating varies
Most men cheat basically because they want to have sex and sex and more sex. When it comes to sexual activities, most men are insatiable. Cheating because of sex is seen as something normal to most men.
When women cheat, they do so mostly because they want to get out of a relationship. They think the best way to deal with the pain in their heart is to get even or get distracted with a new affair.
5. Women are considered role models to children
Being married definitely takes the life out of many women, having kids make them stop living and start to live for the children. While men carry on with their affairs, women are expected to see to the affairs of the home.
Not like women in this case cannot cheat, most of them hold back from doing so because of the kids. They are also mindful of the sentiments that line the walls of the society.

2 comments:

  1. I just don't get y men can cheat because of sex... And more sex.

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